TEENAGERS’ CONFLICT

Teen challengers

Now a day we can see in news, talk about our teenagers’ problem. And we also can see around us how their react with each other. There are a lot of changes in their selves whether in physical, emotional and also social behaviour, these will effect to their mentally health. They will react like man or woman and they want us to treat them as a matured one.

Teenagers’ Problems

There are some of the teenagers’ problems that always disturbed their mind. Most of them are confused with their role in society; they do not know what to do so that they do not feel bored and confused with themselves. They also do not know what their responsibility even in their family is. They want a full attention and also treating like an important person. There is a lot thing they wanted to do and this bring a confusing to them.

Some of them always feel that their selves are misunderstanding with people around them and if a problem occurred they feel that people also will blame them. They inclined to believe that they would not be trusted with their parents whatever they wanted to do. There is no discussion and most of them do not like to tell about their feeling to other people especially with their parents, they are inclined to closeness.

Most of the time, they feel they are treating not fair by their parents and this will bring a child that a rebellious nature. That is why we always heard about the teenagers’ rebel against their parents. They wanted to show the true picture about their selves and telling that people should treat them as a matured man or woman.

When they feel lonely they will tell their selves that no one loves them and it is too hard to understand their emotion. And this will bring a conflict in them; they try to find something to ‘break’ their loneliness. They always feel confused about everything around them. Most of them are hard to make a decision and do not know what is the best for themselves. They are so easy influenced by other people especially their friends. Some of them even shared their problems with their close friend rather than shared it to their parents. They have a great of trust to their friends...

So..how to solve this problem?